Build Around Loved Ones

A philosophy shared by Mike Brown about building business relationships around people you care about, rather than separating business and personal relationships.

Core Philosophy

  • Find the people you love and do life with them
  • Don't avoid working with family/friends due to fear of "messiness"
  • Prioritize relationships over traditional business wisdom of keeping personal/professional separate

Implementation Examples from Shaan

  • Does business with his wife
  • Brought sister into one of his businesses
  • Started businesses with two best friends
  • Created podcast with Sam Parr because he enjoyed spending time with him

Key Benefits

  • Higher upside potential when working with people you genuinely care about
  • Creates natural alignment of interests and values
  • Allows you to combine life and work in meaningful ways
  • Makes work more enjoyable and personally fulfilling

Risk Assessment

  • Yes, things can go wrong when mixing business and personal relationships
  • But the upside potential outweighs the downside risks
  • No strategy is foolproof - accept that some relationships may not work out
  • Focus on the opportunity to deepen relationships through shared work

Mindset Shift

  • Move from "don't mix business and personal" to "actively seek ways to work with people you love"
  • Look for excuses/opportunities to collaborate with people you enjoy
  • View business as a vehicle for strengthening personal relationships
  • Don't let fear of "messiness" prevent potentially great partnerships
45:10 - 46:30
Full video: 50:00
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Shaan Puri

Host of MFM

Shaan Puri is the Chairman and Co-Founder of The Milk Road. He previously worked at Twitch as a Senior Director of Product, Mobile Gaming, and Emerging Markets. He also attended Duke University.

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