Build Around Loved Ones
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A philosophy shared by Mike Brown about building business relationships around people you care about, rather than separating business and personal relationships.
Core Philosophy
- Find the people you love and do life with them
- Don't avoid working with family/friends due to fear of "messiness"
- Prioritize relationships over traditional business wisdom of keeping personal/professional separate
Implementation Examples from Shaan
- Does business with his wife
- Brought sister into one of his businesses
- Started businesses with two best friends
- Created podcast with Sam Parr because he enjoyed spending time with him
Key Benefits
- Higher upside potential when working with people you genuinely care about
- Creates natural alignment of interests and values
- Allows you to combine life and work in meaningful ways
- Makes work more enjoyable and personally fulfilling
Risk Assessment
- Yes, things can go wrong when mixing business and personal relationships
- But the upside potential outweighs the downside risks
- No strategy is foolproof - accept that some relationships may not work out
- Focus on the opportunity to deepen relationships through shared work
Mindset Shift
- Move from "don't mix business and personal" to "actively seek ways to work with people you love"
- Look for excuses/opportunities to collaborate with people you enjoy
- View business as a vehicle for strengthening personal relationships
- Don't let fear of "messiness" prevent potentially great partnerships
45:10 - 46:30
Full video: 50:00SP
Shaan Puri
Host of MFM
Shaan Puri is the Chairman and Co-Founder of The Milk Road. He previously worked at Twitch as a Senior Director of Product, Mobile Gaming, and Emerging Markets. He also attended Duke University.