COVID Wedding Adaptations

Dan and Jen Willson share their experience and advice about adapting wedding plans during the COVID-19 pandemic, transitioning from a traditional ceremony to a virtual celebration, while maintaining the meaningful aspects of their special day.

Key Points:

  • Original Wedding Plans:

    • Planned for 50 people in Jacksonville
    • Simple park ceremony
    • Reception at a favorite brewery
    • Traditional venue-based celebration
  • Pivot to Virtual Wedding:

    • Made decision when guests started canceling
    • Used Facebook Live for the ceremony
    • Actually reached more people than originally planned
    • Allowed participation from those who might not have attended due to:
      • Travel constraints
      • Family obligations
      • Work commitments
  • Recommendations for Other Couples (May-June 2020):

    • Consider that large gatherings won't return quickly
    • Evaluate three main options:
      • Virtual ceremonies
      • Postponement
      • Significantly smaller gatherings
    • Be realistic about near-term restrictions
    • Consider splitting celebration:
      • Immediate ceremony (virtual/small)
      • Later in-person celebration
  • Benefits of Virtual Wedding:

    • Broader inclusion of friends and family
    • Ability to share with extended network
    • Creates unique memories
    • Maintains wedding timeline while being safe
    • Can still plan future in-person celebration
  • Post-Wedding Perspective:

    • Made the day feel special despite circumstances
    • Allowed focus on what matters most - the couple
    • Created unexpected positive memories
    • Provided unique way to include more people than original plans
05:00 - 06:23
Full video: 19:30
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Jen Willson

Director of 6–12 Professional Learning Design at Illustrative Mathematics. Works with teachers and administrators to enhance mathematics education. Co-authored articles on mathematics education and distance learning strategies.