Lean Into Your Oddities

Shaan Puri believes that discovering your unique strengths comes from identifying what you do beyond what's rational—activities that feel like play to you but work to others. Rather than hiding your oddities or trying to fix them, you should lean into them and find scenarios where they become superpowers.

Key Points:

  • Look at Your "5 to 9" (Not Just 9 to 5):

    • What you do outside work hours reveals your natural inclinations
    • Specifically focus on what you do "beyond what's rational"
    • Activities that either look like work/grind to others OR seem excessive compared to normal engagement
  • Other People Are Better Mirrors Than You Are:

    • People close to you can spot your natural talents before you can
    • Naval's mom noticed he was always analyzing businesses, not physics
    • Ask others: "What's my superpower? What comes easy to me that's harder for others?"
  • Play vs. Work Test:

    • Where do you spend time doing things that feel fun to you but would feel like a grind to others?
    • Shaan's example: Reading Nevada casino annual reports at midnight for fun
    • His wife: Bedazzling phones obsessively, which turned into a business with celebrity clients
  • Gaming as Practice:

    • Shaan played NBA 2K but never actually played games—only franchise management mode
    • He was "practicing being a CEO" since 5th/6th grade
    • Adjusting concession prices, scouting players, making trades gave him more joy than the actual game
  • Don't Point, Hide, or Fix Your Oddities:

    • Instead ask: "What superpower does this give me?"
    • "Where does this let me thrive?"
    • "In what scenario would this be extremely useful or valuable?"
  • Finding the Fit Takes Time:

    • Shaan's random business research rabbit holes seemed useless initially
    • Later became a "giant library" of factoids perfect for podcasting
    • You find the fit for your oddities later, not immediately
  • The Most Important Voice:

    • Not your mom, teachers, boss, society, or media
    • The little voice in your head—the director of your life's movie
    • It tells you where to stand, what to say, what to do next
    • You want "Spielberg, Scorsese, Tarantino" directing—make it a great movie
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Shaan Puri

Host of MFM

Shaan Puri is the Chairman and Co-Founder of The Milk Road. He previously worked at Twitch as a Senior Director of Product, Mobile Gaming, and Emerging Markets. He also attended Duke University.

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