Celebrity Interaction Framework

A discussion on how to effectively interact with celebrities and famous people, combining directness with familiarity.

Direct Acknowledgment Approach

  • Address fame directly but confidently
  • Ask questions everyone wants to know
  • Combine light teasing with genuine compliments
  • Makes people comfortable and likely to open up
  • Example phrases:
    • "You're pretty famous - is that cool or bad?"
    • "You're way taller than I thought"
    • "You're not nearly as slight of build as I was expecting"

The "Long-Lost Friend" Technique

  • Greet celebrities like you already know them
  • Act as if you're reconnecting rather than meeting first time
  • Leverage that celebrities meet many people and can't remember everyone
  • Creates peer-level dynamic instead of fan interaction
  • Example approach:
    • Use their first name casually
    • Reference their city/work naturally
    • Keep moving as if it's a casual reunion

The "Restaurant Owner Energy" Method

  • Adopt the confident mindset of someone who belongs
  • Act like you have authority to talk to anyone
  • Don't explicitly claim ownership/status
  • Let others make assumptions based on your energy
  • Benefits:
    • Creates natural confidence
    • Makes interactions feel more authentic
    • Removes awkward power dynamics

Key Principles

  • Don't make fame the focus but don't ignore it
  • Balance between respect and familiarity
  • Stay direct but keep it light
  • Maintain confident, comfortable energy
  • Create peer-level interactions instead of fan moments
02:21 - 05:08
Full video: 30:29
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Shaan Puri

Host of MFM

Shaan Puri is the Chairman and Co-Founder of The Milk Road. He previously worked at Twitch as a Senior Director of Product, Mobile Gaming, and Emerging Markets. He also attended Duke University.

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