5 Pillars of Happiness

A simple but effective framework for maintaining happiness and well-being through regular life activities at different frequencies.

The 5 Pillars

  1. Daily Activities
  • See family every day
  • Focus on core relationships and home life
  1. Weekly Activities
  • Meet friends and loved ones multiple times per week
  • Spend time in nature at least once per week
  1. Monthly Activities
  • Seek new and novel experiences
  • Keep life fresh and interesting through regular novelty
  1. Quarterly Activities
  • Engage in "primal" or "caveman" activities
  • Examples:
    • Hunting
    • Sports
    • Physical competitions
    • Manual labor
    • Activities that make you feel "tough and gritty"

Implementation Notes

  • Can be tracked using a simple ranking system
  • Activities can be adapted based on personal preferences
  • Modern equivalents work fine (e.g. weightlifting instead of manual labor)
  • The system helps satisfy both modern and primitive brain needs
  • Even "simulated" versions of activities (like paying for a trainer) provide benefits

Real Examples Mentioned

  • Powerlifting with a trainer
  • Boxing
  • Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu
  • Basketball
  • Manual labor/assembly projects
  • Building things by hand

The framework emphasizes regular connection with others while balancing civilized activities with primal needs at different frequencies.

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Andrew Wilkinson

Co-founder of Tiny

Wilkinson is the co-founder of Tiny Capital, which owns companies including AeroPress, MetaLab and Dribble. He is also the co-founder and chairman of WeCommerce, a holding company that starts, buys, and invests in the world’s top Shopify businesses.

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