5 Pillars of Happiness
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A simple but effective framework for maintaining happiness and well-being through regular life activities at different frequencies.
The 5 Pillars
- Daily Activities
- See family every day
- Focus on core relationships and home life
- Weekly Activities
- Meet friends and loved ones multiple times per week
- Spend time in nature at least once per week
- Monthly Activities
- Seek new and novel experiences
- Keep life fresh and interesting through regular novelty
- Quarterly Activities
- Engage in "primal" or "caveman" activities
- Examples:
- Hunting
- Sports
- Physical competitions
- Manual labor
- Activities that make you feel "tough and gritty"
Implementation Notes
- Can be tracked using a simple ranking system
- Activities can be adapted based on personal preferences
- Modern equivalents work fine (e.g. weightlifting instead of manual labor)
- The system helps satisfy both modern and primitive brain needs
- Even "simulated" versions of activities (like paying for a trainer) provide benefits
Real Examples Mentioned
- Powerlifting with a trainer
- Boxing
- Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu
- Basketball
- Manual labor/assembly projects
- Building things by hand
The framework emphasizes regular connection with others while balancing civilized activities with primal needs at different frequencies.
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Andrew Wilkinson
Co-founder of Tiny
Wilkinson is the co-founder of Tiny Capital, which owns companies including AeroPress, MetaLab and Dribble. He is also the co-founder and chairman of WeCommerce, a holding company that starts, buys, and invests in the world’s top Shopify businesses.