Three Leadership Pillars

A framework for effective leadership based on three core pillars discussed by Shaan Puri, focusing on personal standards, emotional management, and vision.

The Three Leadership Pillars

  1. Higher Personal Standards
  • Leader must hold themselves to higher standards than others hold them to
  • Standards should exceed what managers/superiors expect
  • True leadership starts with self-accountability regardless of title
  1. Emotional State Management
  • Leaders must understand current emotional state of team/organization
  • Need ability to recognize when morale is low or high
  • Must know how to shift emotional states when needed
    • Can elevate low morale
    • Can create urgency when team is too comfortable
  • Skill in transferring/shifting group energy and mood
  1. Reality and Vision Balance
  • See things exactly as they are (reality)
    • Not worse than they are
    • Not better than they are
    • Clear, unbiased assessment
  • Paint picture of better future (vision)
    • Ability to show path forward
    • Create compelling vision of improvement
    • Bridge gap between current reality and future potential

Key Leadership Traits

  • Emotional intelligence to read group dynamics
  • Ability to influence collective mood/energy
  • Clear-eyed assessment of current situation
  • Skill in communicating future possibilities
  • Balance between realism and optimism

This framework emphasizes leadership as a combination of personal excellence, emotional intelligence, and strategic vision rather than just position or authority.

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Shaan Puri

Host of MFM

Shaan Puri is the Chairman and Co-Founder of The Milk Road. He previously worked at Twitch as a Senior Director of Product, Mobile Gaming, and Emerging Markets. He also attended Duke University.

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