Social Network Friend Rankings

A look at how public friend rankings evolved from blog rolls to MySpace's Top 8, and how this concept could be reimagined for modern social networks.

Evolution of Public Friend Rankings

  • Started with blog rolls

    • Blogs would list 8 similar blogs on sidebar
    • Used for content discovery
    • Led to Link Exchange by Tony Hsieh
      • Grew to $400M acquisition
      • Monetized blog roll placement
      • Became pay-to-play system
  • MySpace Top 8

    • Users ranked their 8 closest friends publicly
    • Tom (MySpace founder) was automatic #1 friend
    • Created social dynamics
      • Felt good to be in someone's Top 8
      • Felt bad to be removed
      • Could signal relationships (e.g., dating)
    • Provided clear social standing indicators

Modern Viral Growth Potential

  • Proposed "My 9" concept
    • Users select their top 9 contacts
    • Share rankings on Instagram/TikTok
    • Notification system
      • Text alerts when added to someone's 9
      • "Someone put you in their My 9 - see who?"
    • Built-in viral loop
      • Each user invites 9 others
      • Even 15% conversion rate ensures viral growth
      • Expected 40% conversion rate
      • K-factor would be over 1 (viral)

Key Psychology Triggers

  • Need to know who ranked you
  • Reciprocity in ranking others back
  • Fun personality quiz element
  • Social validation
  • FOMO (Fear of Missing Out)
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Full video: 57:05
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Shaan Puri

Host of MFM

Shaan Puri is the Chairman and Co-Founder of The Milk Road. He previously worked at Twitch as a Senior Director of Product, Mobile Gaming, and Emerging Markets. He also attended Duke University.

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