Doubt Your Doubts
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A discussion on how to build genuine self-confidence through questioning doubt itself, using examples from successful people like Conor McGregor.
Core Philosophy on Building Confidence
- "Doubt doubt" - Question your self-doubt rather than your abilities
- Effort creates effortlessness
- Practice confidence consistently for ~5 years
- Eventually becomes natural rather than forced
The Self-Belief Formula
- Start by doubting your doubts
- Learn to lack lack
- Question limitations you place on yourself
- Develop "unshakeable self-confidence"
Key Elements of True Confidence
- Not just external boasting or chest-puffing
- Shows in how someone:
- Walks
- Talks
- Carries themselves
- Becomes magnetic and intoxicating to others
Real World Example: Conor McGregor
- Started as failed plumber on welfare
- Had "ludicrous self-belief" from the beginning
- Made specific ambitious claims:
- Becoming 2-weight world champion
- Being #1 on Forbes list
- Becoming biggest sports star
- Self-confidence drove work ethic
- Actually achieved his stated goals
Why This Matters
- Self-confidence drives motivation
- Motivation leads to work
- Work + self-confidence helps overcome odds
- Creates a virtuous cycle of achievement
- Inspires others to believe in their own potential
Implementation Strategy
- Start with conscious effort
- Maintain consistent practice
- Allow it to become natural over time
- Focus on your own versions of ambitious goals
- Expect success while remaining pleased (not surprised) when it comes
20:51 - 21:18
Full video: 57:10SP
Shaan Puri
Host of MFM
Shaan Puri is the Chairman and Co-Founder of The Milk Road. He previously worked at Twitch as a Senior Director of Product, Mobile Gaming, and Emerging Markets. He also attended Duke University.