Doubt Your Doubts

A discussion on how to build genuine self-confidence through questioning doubt itself, using examples from successful people like Conor McGregor.

Core Philosophy on Building Confidence

  • "Doubt doubt" - Question your self-doubt rather than your abilities
  • Effort creates effortlessness
    • Practice confidence consistently for ~5 years
    • Eventually becomes natural rather than forced

The Self-Belief Formula

  • Start by doubting your doubts
  • Learn to lack lack
  • Question limitations you place on yourself
  • Develop "unshakeable self-confidence"

Key Elements of True Confidence

  • Not just external boasting or chest-puffing
  • Shows in how someone:
    • Walks
    • Talks
    • Carries themselves
  • Becomes magnetic and intoxicating to others

Real World Example: Conor McGregor

  • Started as failed plumber on welfare
  • Had "ludicrous self-belief" from the beginning
  • Made specific ambitious claims:
    • Becoming 2-weight world champion
    • Being #1 on Forbes list
    • Becoming biggest sports star
  • Self-confidence drove work ethic
  • Actually achieved his stated goals

Why This Matters

  • Self-confidence drives motivation
  • Motivation leads to work
  • Work + self-confidence helps overcome odds
  • Creates a virtuous cycle of achievement
  • Inspires others to believe in their own potential

Implementation Strategy

  • Start with conscious effort
  • Maintain consistent practice
  • Allow it to become natural over time
  • Focus on your own versions of ambitious goals
  • Expect success while remaining pleased (not surprised) when it comes
20:51 - 21:18
Full video: 57:10
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Shaan Puri

Host of MFM

Shaan Puri is the Chairman and Co-Founder of The Milk Road. He previously worked at Twitch as a Senior Director of Product, Mobile Gaming, and Emerging Markets. He also attended Duke University.

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