Informal Language Boosts Responses

Sam Parr has developed a simple but effective networking strategy that focuses on direct, casual communication to connect with high-value individuals.

Core Strategy

  • Uses informal, direct language instead of formal requests
  • Sends short messages like "I'm in your hood, let's" instead of asking "want to hang out?"
  • Works effectively even with CEOs of billion-dollar companies
  • Extends from casual slang phrases like "I fuck with that guy"

Why It Works

  • Removes the formal barrier of asking for permission
  • Creates a more casual, friendly dynamic
  • Gets higher response rates than traditional networking approaches
  • Makes connection feel more natural and less transactional

Example Implementation

  • Start with location context ("I'm in your hood")
  • Follow with direct "let's" statement
  • Keep message short and informal
  • Don't explicitly ask for permission or availability

Real Results

  • Successfully used to connect with CEO of multibillion-dollar company
  • CEO responded with "down when"
  • Works even with people Sam doesn't know well
  • Effective for cold outreach and warm connections

The strategy represents a modern, informal approach to networking that strips away traditional formalities while maintaining respect through brevity and directness.

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Shaan Puri

Host of MFM

Shaan Puri is the Chairman and Co-Founder of The Milk Road. He previously worked at Twitch as a Senior Director of Product, Mobile Gaming, and Emerging Markets. He also attended Duke University.

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