Direct Competitor Outreach

A strategic approach to learning from competitors by directly reaching out to them, even if you're planning to compete with them. Based on Sam Parr's experience.

Core Approach

  • Call competitors directly instead of trying to research from afar
  • Be transparent about your intentions to compete
  • Frame the conversation around mutual respect and learning

Key Elements of the Outreach

  • Start with a direct, unexpected phone call
  • Acknowledge the awkwardness upfront
  • Present three possible outcomes:
    • Your venture fails (no threat)
    • You succeed and crush them
    • They eventually acquire you
  • Express genuine respect for their business
  • Share what you're planning to do openly

Benefits of This Method

  • Gets immediate, high-quality information about the market
  • Creates potential future acquisition opportunities
  • Establishes professional relationships with competitors
  • More productive than trying to research from afar
  • Can lead to unexpected collaborations or partnerships

Real Example Results

  • Sam called a PE firm that bought a $2.5M competitor
  • The PE partner knew Sam from the podcast
  • Got valuable insights about why they bought the competitor
  • Created potential future business opportunities
  • Established an open line of communication

Key Mindset

  • Be confident but respectful
  • Show genuine interest in learning
  • Be transparent about your intentions
  • Don't be afraid of awkwardness
  • Frame competition as something that can benefit both parties
16:00 - 17:33
Full video: 56:51
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Shaan Puri

Host of MFM

Shaan Puri is the Chairman and Co-Founder of The Milk Road. He previously worked at Twitch as a Senior Director of Product, Mobile Gaming, and Emerging Markets. He also attended Duke University.

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