Choose Harder Options

A decision-making framework that recognizes our brain's natural tendency to avoid difficulty, suggesting that when faced with seemingly equal choices, we should lean towards the harder option.

Core Concept: "Easy choices, hard life. Hard choices, easy life."

  • Originally from Jerzy Gregorek, popularized by Tim Ferriss
  • Making hard decisions early leads to easier outcomes long-term
  • Delaying difficult choices typically results in worse outcomes

How the Framework Works

  • When faced with two seemingly equal options:
    • Identify which choice is harder
    • Recognize your brain is naturally discounting the difficult option
    • The harder choice is likely the better choice
    • Your brain applies an artificial "tax" on difficult decisions

Common Applications

  • Personnel Decisions

    • If you think "should I fire this person?" - you probably should
    • Exception: First ensure role clarity and expectations are well-defined
    • Never question keeping high performers
  • Business Decisions

    • Hiring: Don't settle for B/C candidates due to fatigue
    • Continue difficult processes even when tired
    • Make hard decisions quickly rather than delaying

Why It Works

  • Brain naturally avoids short-term pain
  • What appears as equal choices are often not truly equal
  • Your mind artificially equalizes options by discounting the harder choice
  • Pushing through difficulty often leads to better long-term outcomes

Implementation Tips

  • Recognize when you're stuck between two choices
  • Explicitly identify which option is more difficult
  • Account for your brain's natural bias against difficulty
  • Make the harder choice quickly rather than delaying
02:40 - 03:19
Full video: 11:18
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Shaan Puri

Host of MFM

Shaan Puri is the Chairman and Co-Founder of The Milk Road. He previously worked at Twitch as a Senior Director of Product, Mobile Gaming, and Emerging Markets. He also attended Duke University.

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