Three Things Make Interesting

A framework for understanding how people become perceived as interesting through the "Rule of Three" interesting stories or facts they share.

The Three Interesting Rule

• After one interesting thing: "That's interesting"
• After two interesting things: "Those are interesting"
• After three interesting things: "YOU are interesting"
• Demonstrated through story of ex-CIA operative at dinner party who:
  • Told first amazing story
  • Told second amazing story
  • By third story, people perceived him as inherently interesting

Key Elements for Making Stories Interesting

• Storytelling ability matters more than accomplishments

  • People who understood how to tell stories stood out at events
  • Those who only shared facts didn't make lasting connections
  • Good storytellers got more help and connections from others

• Self-deprecating elements are important

  • CIA operative's rule: Only tell stories where "I look like an idiot"
  • Avoid stories that are purely self-promotional
  • Stories that make fun of yourself are more engaging

Common Mistakes in Storytelling

• Every story being about personal success
• Stories that just repel people
• Only sharing facts without narrative
• Being too focused on self-promotion

Impact of Good Storytelling

• Creates better networking opportunities
• People start helping and making connections
• Others become more engaged and interested
• Leads to stronger relationship building
• Makes accomplishments more memorable

The key is not just having interesting experiences, but being able to share them in an engaging and humble way that connects with others.