Problem-Solution Negotiation Strategy

A negotiation strategy focused on understanding the other party's needs rather than accepting rejection, demonstrated through Anne Mahlum's business experiences.

Core Negotiation Philosophy

  • Don't accept "no" as a final answer
  • Ask what the other party needs to make the deal work
  • Focus on solving the underlying problem rather than the initial rejection

Real-World Applications

Landlord Negotiations

  • Challenge standard requirements like security deposits
  • Response to "we always require deposits":
    • "That's not really a response - what are you trying to protect against?"
    • Offer alternative solutions to address their actual concerns
    • Propose different ways to provide security (corporate guarantees, etc.)

Private Equity Deals

  • When valuation seemed high ($60M for company):
    • Shifted focus from number to terms
    • Asked what they needed to make deal work
    • Solved concerns through preferred returns
    • Offered guarantee: "You won't see another dime until you make 2.5x your money"

COVID-19 Rent Crisis Solutions

  • Instead of defaulting on rent:
    • Extended lease terms
    • Increased rent in later years
    • Added years to back end of lease
    • Created win-win scenarios that protected both parties

Key Principles

  • Make people articulate what's important to them
  • Focus on total value over immediate terms
  • Find creative solutions to address core concerns
  • Structure deals that protect both parties' interests
  • Think long-term relationship over short-term gains