NICK Party Hosting Method

The NICK Method is a framework for hosting successful parties and events, developed by Nick Gray. It focuses on creating connections and value for attendees through structured activities and a well-planned format.

Core components of the NICK Method

• N - Name tags
• I - Intros (or Icebreakers)
• C - Cocktails (or mocktails) only
• K - Kick them out at the end

Name tags

• Use first names only in big block letters
• Recommended brands: Qualphec 3100 (comes in 6 colors) or Avery 5420
• Purpose: Creates a sense of team unity and reduces social barriers

Intros (Icebreakers)

• Start with simple, low-pressure intros

• Progress to more advanced, value-additive intros later in the event

• Basic intro format:

  • Name
  • What you do for work/how you spend your day
  • One favorite breakfast item

• Advanced intro ideas:

  • Local pro tips or life hacks
  • Recent media recommendations (movies, podcasts, books)

Cocktails only

• Avoid dinner parties for first-time hosts
• Keep the focus on mingling and conversation

Kick them out at the end

• Limit events to 2 hours
• End while the energy is still high
• Leave people wanting more

Additional tips

• Ideal party size: 15-22 people
• Cost should be under $100 per event
• Collect interesting people you meet to invite to future events
• Use events to build your network and add value to others' lives

Benefits of hosting events

• Fastest way to become interesting to others
• Helps build a valuable network
• Can lead to business opportunities
• Satisfies people's hunger for in-person connection